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The Vibrant Marriage Podcast is your weekly breath of fresh air for honest, authentic conversations about building a healthy, joy-filled marriage that lasts. Hosted by marriage and family therapist Rachel Engels, this podcast helps couples grow closer emotionally, spiritually, and relationally—while becoming fully alive as the unique people God created them to be.
If you’re looking for solid marriage advice, ways to keep the spark alive, or practical support for overcoming life’s challenges together, you’re in the right place. Each episode feels like a warm chat over coffee with a trusted friend—full of relatable stories, expert guidance, and grounded encouragement.
Inside the show, you’ll discover:
- Expert relationship advice rooted in clinical wisdom
- Inspiring interviews with couples who’ve navigated challenges and learned to thrive
- Practical tools for growing your marriage, nurturing emotional intimacy, and supporting your spouse (without losing yourself)
- Encouragement for tough days—and actionable steps for reconnecting, reigniting passion, and repairing after conflict
Whether you want help with communication, emotional connection, navigating stress, or growing your marriage, this podcast gives you the tools and encouragement to cultivate a vibrant, authentic, lasting relationship.
Subscribe to The Vibrant Marriage Podcast and let’s overcome life’s challenges together while building a marriage that’s deeply connected, meaningful, and built to sustain you for the life and calling you were meant to live.
Hosted by Rachel Engels, a licensed marriage and family therapist in the state of California (#120068). Please note, however, that this podcast is not therapy. The information shared is for educational purposes only and should not be considered a substitute for professional counseling, diagnosis, or personalized mental health treatment.
Episodes

Mar 6, 2026
Mar 6, 2026
18 min
Somewhere along the road of marriage, motherhood, and responsibility, many women slowly lose touch with parts of themselves.
The hobbies that used to bring joy. The things that sparked curiosity. The parts of your identity that had nothing to do with managing schedules, caring for everyone else, or keeping life running.
In this episode, I’m sharing a personal story about a season when I realized I had been running on empty—and how easy it is for women to lose themselves in the constant demands of family life.
But more importantly, we’ll talk about why reconnecting with the things that light you up isn’t selfish at all. In fact, it’s one of the most powerful ways you can bring more energy, joy, and connection back into your marriage.
If you’ve ever felt like parts of you have quietly disappeared in the process of taking care of everyone else, this episode is an invitation to start finding your way back.

Feb 27, 2026
Feb 27, 2026
27 min
There are seasons in marriage when you’re not at your best — when work is overwhelming, a parent is sick, the kids aren’t sleeping, your energy is gone, and it feels like you have nothing left to give.
In this episode, we’re talking about what it looks like to stay connected when you’re running on empty. Instead of pushing harder or expecting more from yourself (or your spouse), we’ll explore how to loosen expectations in hard seasons, focus on appreciation over criticism, and prioritize small, meaningful gestures that keep your bond intact.
You’ll learn how to simplify your routines, shift into “survival mode” without shame, and make the most of tiny moments of connection while you wait for the season to pass.
Because real, healthy marriages aren't made of constant perfection — they’re made from two people who keep showing up for each other in the small, consistent ways, even when the season is hard.

Feb 20, 2026
Feb 20, 2026
30 min
Have you ever tried to solve a conflict in the middle of frustration… and only made things worse? When emotions run high, even the most loving couples can get stuck in cycles of tension, defensiveness, and miscommunication.
In this episode of The Vibrant Marriage Podcast, we’re talking about why emotional regulation in marriage is the key to healthy communication—and why calm clarity matters more than winning the argument. You’ll learn practical, realistic steps to help you move from overwhelm and reactivity to steadiness and self-awareness, even in tense conversations.
Inside this episode, you’ll discover how to:
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Shift from frustration to emotional regulation
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Take ownership for what you can control (instead of trying to control your spouse)
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Pause unhelpful conflict patterns before they escalate
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Recenter so you can communicate with calm, clarity, and connection
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Move out of stuckness and back toward teamwork
If you’ve ever felt caught in the same argument loop or wished you could stay calmer during conflict, this episode will give you simple, actionable tools to help you reset emotionally and reconnect relationally.
Because strong marriages aren’t built by never getting worked up—they’re strengthened by learning how to return to calm, move toward each other, and stay connected even in hard conversations.
🎧 Press play to learn how to move from frustration to calm, clarity, and connection in your marriage.

Feb 13, 2026
Feb 13, 2026
23 min
Some differences in marriage aren’t going anywhere. The dirty socks. The different communication styles. The personality quirks. The habits that make you think, “How are we still having this conversation?”
In this episode of The Vibrant Marriage Podcast, we’re talking about how to navigate the so-called “unsolvable problems” in marriage—and why many of them aren’t actually problems to fix, but differences to understand.
You’ll learn how to:
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Recognize the difference between unsolvable vs. situational problems
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Identify the underlying emotional triggers beneath recurring conflict
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Reframe your mindset so differences don’t feel like threats
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Get on the same page about your deeper hopes, dreams, and values
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Creatively problem-solve in ways that honor both partners’ needs
If you’ve ever felt stuck in the same argument on repeat, this episode will help you move from frustration to understanding—and from opposition to teamwork.
Because a healthy, vibrant marriage isn’t about eliminating every difference. It’s about learning how to navigate them with curiosity, compassion, and creativity.
🎧 Press play to discover how to handle your “dirty socks” moments with more connection and less conflict.

Feb 5, 2026
Feb 5, 2026
21 min
Feeling stretched thin by the endless chores, mental load, and daily responsibilities at home? In this episode of The Vibrant Marriage Podcast, we talk about how to rebalance the load in marriage without resentment or scorekeeping. You’ll learn why internal attitudes like control and entitlement often keep couples stuck—and how to use self-advocacy and sacrifice to create healthier teamwork that benefits you both.

Jan 27, 2026
Jan 27, 2026
23 min
In this episode of The Vibrant Marriage Podcast, we'll discuss why staying on the same team in marriage matters more than ever under stress. You’ll learn 3 key concepts to help you stay connected, communicate with clarity, and face life’s challenges together, even when stress tries to divide you.
